Naughty Girl!

Oh Bettie You Naughty Little Vixen..............


Today friends we are going to answer a few questions that I have recieved on a few different fetishes. My thoughts and opinions are all I can offer but I do love your emails!

Dear: Una Bella Anima,
My husband and I have been together for 8 years and I just found out that he likes to wear my panties and sometimes lingerie. It grosses me out and now I am having trouble being attracted to him. Please help.



Dear Confused,
This is a good question. In my opinion there are a few issues here. To start, why wasn't he comfortable telling you about his desires earlier? Maybe he is ashamed or thinks you won't like it and that it will change the dynamics of your relationship.


Wait? Are you saying that's not sexy?
Ha ha ha...:)


There are websites like this one http://hesinpanties.blogspot.com/
In my research on this topic I have found many straight men that enjoy wearing womens clothing. I think it takes an incredibly open mind to accept it. To be honest accepting it and being attracted to it are two different things.

Dear Una Bella Anima,

My husband recently told me that he wants to try experimenting in bed. I thought that was a great idea! He wanted to try out costumes in particular. I was thinking maybe he was talking about a french maid or naughty nurse or something. It turns out he was talking about dressing up in giant fuzzy animal costumes and making the animal noises during the act. I am not into this. Do you think he will get over it? I am in shock!



Dear Shocked,
I can see your confusion my mind would automatically go to a less extreme type of costume as well. That being said...............
This fetish is commonly done by people that call themselves furries. Furries are grown men and women that like to dress up in animal costumes for sexual purposes. They are also known as furs or furverts. Most of the communication between furries happens online. There are clubs that cater to this life style as well.


Ha ha ha !!!!!! I can't help it sorry...:)




Oh Goodness...bwa ha ha stop it stop it...ha ha ha ................


My heart goes out to both of you gals because I truly feel these fetish's in your men are not going to go away. I think we all know what we are comfortable with and if you are not comfortable with it then don't do it. Intimacy should be enjoyable for both people involved. So I say either have a serious talk with your honey's or, Mrs. confused you are going to have to buy him some panties of his own and Mrs. shocked you are going to have to put on a chicken suit and start clucking! Best of luck and hugs to you both...XOXOXO